Monday blues on Sunday...

I can feel the 'Monday Blues' although it is 6.30pm on Sunday.. ..

I wonder how Aiman is right now. Smalam dia mengadu sakit perut.. yang amat.. yelah, makan nasi goreng pagi tu sikit je, tgh hari tak mau makan, cume minum milo.. mana perut tak masuk angin... kemudian muntah pula..

Tulah, memilih makanan lagi.. bila dah sakit, sume risau.. well, can't blame himself, dia mungkin dah terbiasa cara makan sebegitu.. but it's not too late, he just 3 years old..
I hope he'll be getting better tomorrow.. and improve his diet..

Yet, I still can feel the Monday blues...
rain rain go away, come again another day....
or it should be...(blues blues go away, and don't ever come again....)

You must Not quit..

When things go wrong, as they sometimes will,
When the road you're trudging seems all uphill
When the funds are low and the debts ar high,
And you want to smile, but you have to sigh,
When care is pressing you down a bit,
Rest if you must, but don't you quit.

Life is a queer with its twists and turns
As everyone of us sometimes learns,
And many fellow turns about,
When he might have won had he stuck it out,
Don't give up though the pace seems slow,
You might succeed with another blow.

Often the goal is nearer than,
It seems to a faint and faltering man;
Often the struggles has given up,
When he might have captured the victor's cup,
And he learned too late when the night came down,
How close he was to the golden crown.

Success is failure turned inside out,
The silver tint of the clouds of doubt,
And you never can tell how close you are,
It may be near when it seems afar,
It's when things seem the worst that you must not quit.

aPa sEbEnArnYa...????

Sebenarnya apa yang kau mahu dalam hidup?

Harta...? Takhta...? Pangkat..? keKasih...? Kejayaan...?

Apa sEbEnaRnye keInginanmu...?
kekayaan...? kehOrmatan...? kErjaYa...? KelUarga....? Kasih sayang...?
SanJungan N puJian...?

Apa yang sering kamu capai...?
kejayaan yg sEmEntara...? lebih kEgagaLan...? sEmangat yang hilang...? keputus asaan...?

Apa Yang sElaLu kamu lupa...?
Mati itu lebih dekat... ALLAH itu MAHA KAYA... Dunia ini satu Ujian...

So,
Kenapa sOmbOng sangat...? Kenape kedekuT sangat...? Apa yg sibuk sangat...?

Ambil lah sedikit masa untuk....
IstighfaR.. Muhasabah diri... perbaiki diri... Sampaikan ilMu... SenYum walaupun pahit... Sedekah walaupun 10 sen... beribadah, wlaupun hanye sekejap....

hari ini

Esok keje lagi.. bila balik rumah macam dah malas nak pergi TASKA, tapi bila kat TASKA, rasa sayang pula nak tinggalkan... Hari-hari mesti wajib memujuk, meleraikan pergaduhan dan melayan kerenah anak-anak kecil yang rata-ratanya memiliki sifat 'egosentrik'. Menurut tokoh pendidikan awal kanak-kanak, Jean Piaget (1896-1980), terdapat 4 tahap:
~ peringkat deria motor (lahir-2 tahun)
~ peringkat praoperasional (2-7 tahun)
~ peringkat operasi konkrit (7-11 tahun)
~ peringkat operasi formal (11- dewasa)

dan Erikson (1964) pula mengemukakan 8 tahap perkembangan kanak-kanak:

-0-18 bulan (kepercayaan) ~ 18-3 tahun (autonomi) ~ 3-6 tahun (inisiatif) ~ 6-12 tahun (berusaha) ~ 12-18 tahun (identiti) ~ 18-35 tahun (berkongsi hidup) ~ 35-60 tahun (menyebar pengaruh) ~ 60 tahun ke atas (kesepaduan)
(aik, yang lain pun dikira kanak-kanak? hehhe... )

Kanak-kanak biasanya memiliki sifat ingin tahu yang tinggi, tidak dapat berfikir secara abstrak, dan lebih mudah belajar daripada pengalaman. Pengajaran pula perlu berulang-ulang. Sifat 'egosentrik' yang tinggi mula nyata pada umur 2 tahun menjadikan mereka sukar berkongsi sesuatu, memaham perasaan orag lain dan agak mementingkan diri...

Bila difikir-fikir semula, banyak benarnya, kadang-kadang berebut permainan, cemburu bila ada kanak-kanak lain dilayan/ rapat sedangkan dia tidak.. akhirnya menangis meminta perhatian.. Lebih sukar bila waktu mengajar.. mereka lebih gemar bermain.. dan cepat bosan. Kanak-kanak kini lebih banyak disogokkan dengan Ultraman, Doraemon, Power Rangers, malah ada yang boleh menghafal lagu Wali Band... huhuhu....

Saya tercari-cari kaedah yang terbaik bagi mendidik mereka, kerana masa mereka bukan sepenuhnya di sini.. Ternyata, kesabaran merupakan perkara yang paling utama.. Walaupun perasaan ingin marah dan cepat mengalah ingin sahaja muncul, ia wajib diuasahakan untuk dihindari.. risau, mereka tidak mahu belajar kerana sikap kita yang gemar marah .. 'La Taghdob'.
Minggu ni saya dah mulakan dengan memberi ganjaran atas kebaikan dan kerajinan mereka... (adakah ini rasuah?..)

Adakah lagi cara terbaik mendidk mereka? Hmm.. masih perlu mencari... perlu mulakan membaca buku ' Pendidkan Cinta untu Anak'. Harap-harap mampu untuk dihabiskan.. =)

Kerlipan Cinta- Rabbani

Entah kenapa minggu ni terasa benar nak dengar lagu ni... Sungguh bermakna.. kerana ia membuatkan terkenang akan seseorang. Tetapi yang penting, makna di sebalik lagu ini penuh pengertian, tidak lupa juga al-Fatihah buat arwah Ustaz Asri..

Hidayah .. Kerlipan Cipta Cintaku
Harum Rembulan Mawar
Dingin Dihakis Keseorangan ....

Aku masih menghitung diri ..
Kesiangan yang panjang
Ingin mengisi hati

Padamu kasih
satukan aku
Dengan rahmatmu
Dengan Kalimah
Malam Siangku
Berliku liku
Duri Dugaan
Siratan Cinta

Biar di jemala mentari
Biar di bahu gunung berapi
pasrahku abadi untukmu ..untukmu

Ku kembara setia disisinya ...
Ku inginkan Bahagia abadi
ku impikan sentosa dibawah naungannya

selamanya

10 Situations When Positive Thinking Doesn't Work...

A lot of people have seen the movie, “the Secret” and they now have certain beliefs about what positive thinking is and what it will do for them. A common belief is that if you can just change your thoughts to be positive, then sooner or later, you’ll become a more positive person and your life will just naturally improve. You’ll just automatically attract all the most wonderful things to you. Right?

The truth is that if you have the wrong idea about what positive thinking really is then you can end up being very disappointed and thinking that nothing ever works for you. Positive thinking is a mindset and it’s a way of looking at the world around you. It’s a way of using your thoughts to help you move forwards rather than letting them keep you feeling trapped and discouraged.



A lot of people also seem to believe positive thinking is something you do in order to get what you want. You could look at it as a form of bargaining as in, “If I do this, then I should get this in return”. If I think positive thoughts every day then I will win a brand new car next week. It doesn’t work like that.


So, to clear up some of the myths I think there are about positive thinking, here are 10 situations where you’ll find positive thinking won’t work for you:


1. When you use it to deny your fears or as a way to ignore reality

Here’s an example, you hear a rumour that there’s going to be massive layoffs at your company. You might think, “If I think positive thoughts, then I won’t be the one that gets laid off”. This is like the ostrich sticking its head in the sand. Positive thinking means that you hear this news and think about what positive action you can take. For example, you could:

- update your resume and prepare yourself to start looking for a new job
- apply to the company you’ve heard really good things about
- think of it as an opportunity to go back to school and get more training
- see it as an opportunity to move to somewhere you’ve always wanted to or back to your home town. Something you haven’t done sooner because you were tied to this particular job.
- see it as an opportunity to try a different career direction. Maybe you’re tired of the current industry you work in and being laid off could be the chance to try a new field of interest.

Basically, you realize that no matter what happens, you’ll be fine. It might temporarily feel stressful as you have to adapt to new situations and circumstances, but everything will work out fine in the end.


2. When you use it to cover up what you really feel inside

If you feel that the world completely sucks, then telling yourself to think positive isn’t dealing with your real feelings. You can't just put a happy mask on whenever you're feeling miserable and think that's going to solve all your problems.
You need to face your feelings and go through them. You may need to forgive the people you think have done terrible things to you as well as forgive yourself. You need to look at what’s causing you to feel this terrible unhappiness and to learn to let some of it go.

By having a positive mind set, you'll know that you might have some beliefs that you need to let go but you'll be willing to change and do what it takes to improve your life. You're actually dealing with the situation and moving through the fear. This works far better and far faster than just putting on a happy mask.


3. You feel that if you think positive thoughts, good things will happen without you having to do anything for it

There is a scene in the movie, “The Secret”, where a woman admires a necklace in a shop window. Then suddenly in the next scene, someone just gives her the necklace. This is a huge mistake to think that just because you wish and think positive thoughts about something, you can just sit at home and whatever you want will come to you. If that worked, we’d all be sitting on our couches at home, imagining something like big trucks coming to our house and just dumping off hundreds of gold bars.

You have to take action to get what you want. In the movie, I think it would have been far better if they’d also shown her figuring out how she could get the necklace she admired. For example, she might have asked her boyfriend for the necklace for her birthday. Or she might think about some extra work she could do in order to afford the necklace. Just dreaming about things isn’t actually going to get it for you.

Positive thinking will allow you to know that you deserve the item and to know that you can get it. You might not know exactly how you're going to get it but you do know that you can take steps towards your goal in some way and be open to any opportunities you see along the way. Positive thinking means that you know you can get what you want but also that you're willing to take action along the way.


4. You focus on what you don’t want

If you think something like, “I’m thinking positive thoughts that I won’t be sick much longer”. Then, what are you really focusing on? You’re focusing on what you don’t want which is to be sick.

If you continue to only focus on what you don't want then you feel bad. You'll be sad, angry, frustrated or maybe even bored because you don't know what you want to move towards. You're stuck just feeling negative.

When you notice that you're feeling bad, ask yourself what are you thinking about? If you're thinking about what you don't want then turn it around and ask yourself what you do want. This way, you suddenly change your mindset into one of action and feeling more positive about things. You'll suddenly see how there are steps you can take to move past your current situation.


5. You're really trying to prove that positive thinking doesn’t work

If deep down, your belief is that positive thinking doesn’t work and that you’re just going to “try” this to see if it works or not, then your belief is going to end up self sabotaging yourself. You’ll be looking for something so you can say, “See this doesn’t work”. Your thoughts will create your own reality because you'll be looking for the evidence that backs up your belief. You'll see what you expect to see.


6. Your expectation is that if you think positive everything will always be smooth sailing


This is another one I hear a lot. If you think positive thoughts then nothing should go wrong and everything should always go smoothly. It's a fact of life that obstacles are going to appear at various times.

With positive thinking, you’ll be able to move past them because you’ll be looking for solutions. There will be uncertainty that you have to deal with and you may have to face some of your fears but you’ll continue to focus on what you want, instead of the obstacles. With real positive thinking, you’ll know you’ll be able to handle it.

Positive thinking doesn’t remove the obstacles but it does allow you to see past them. With positive thinking, you'll also know that it isn't personal against you. It's just an event and you get to choose whether it's good, bad, or neutral.


7. You believe that positive thinking means that nothing bad will ever happen to you

The Law of Attraction has made some people think that positive thinking is like that life preserver they seek which will save them from their life of misery. Also, that if bad things happen to them then it’s all their fault because they thought negative thoughts and attracted those bad things. They believe that if they can just always monitor their thoughts and only think nice things then their life will be one of pure bliss with constant sunshine and roses. You're going to be disappointed if you believe this one.

It doesn't matter how positive you are, unexpected things are going to happen. Delays will occur, disappointments will happen, people will get sick, and you won't always get what you want.
The trick is to realize that bad things aren’t always bad. Sometimes, they lead us in a far better direction but we needed that bad thing to make us realize that. It's also how you deal with that disappointment that's important. It's not just glossing over the issue and pretending that it doesn't matter. It's handling it in a positive way and not getting trapped into just thinking about how sad and hurt you feel that things didn't go the way you wanted.

Also, if bad or disappointing things happen, it’s okay to be upset about it. You don’t have to think that it’s a bad thing to think that your day just completely sucked. You don’t have to keep a smile plastered on your face no matter what happens to you. That’s the part of positive thinking where I think a lot of people get confused. It’s perfectly natural to feel disappointed when things don’t go your way. With real positive thinking though, you’ll know that it’s just one day. It doesn’t mean that your life is always going to suck. It’s just temporary. But, you're a human being and you get to feel sad sometimes.

Negative thinking will keep you trapped in that disappointment. Positive thinking will give you ideas on how you can move forwards from it or to see the benefits of what you just experienced.


8. You don’t really know what you want, just “positive things” to happen

There seems to be a belief that if you think happy thoughts all day long then good things will come to you. But, if you’re not clear on what you would consider a “good thing” to happen, then you may not notice when nice things do happen. Also, because you’re not addressing your true desires, you’re not going to be satisfied with your life because you're not moving towards anything. You're just drifting.


9. You expect others to take action or do things on your behalf

You need to be willing to take responsibility for your actions and to take control of your life. If we go back to the example of losing your job, if you just sit back and expect your previous employer to find you a new job or to provide you with some other benefits, most likely you’re going to end up disappointed. Real positive thinking gives you the mindset in order to move forwards no matter what happens. You’re not waiting for others to do things for you. You’re the one taking action.


10. You're only happy if things happen exactly as you wanted

If something doesn’t work exactly as you wanted that doesn't mean that positive thinking doesn't work. Far better for you to take a look and see what worked, what didn’t and then take different actions based upon what you've learned. You need to be adaptable and flexible. It’s also keeping your focus on what you want. Something else might happen that’s actually much better than you originally planned. But, if you think, I have to have this exact situation happen in exactly the way I imagined it, then if it doesn’t happen, you end up disappointed and think, “Positive thinking doesn’t work”.

Real positive thinking is a mindset and a way of beingPositive thinking is an understanding that what’s really important is knowing who you are and who you want to be.

It's also knowing that you always get to choose how you respond to an event. It’s not just hoping for the best and waiting for things to happen.

It’s taking action and knowing that you’re constantly improving with every step forward you take.

This is when positive thinking works. It's a tool you use, not a magic wand. Positive thinking does work, you just have to know what it is and how to really use it.

from: http://www.life-with-confidence.com/positive-thinking-doesnt-work.html#ixzz0cDXsLgBg

If you don't have wings, make one: an EmperOr mOth's stOry

The Emperor Moth as its name suggests is the most majestic species among all the moths. It has a wide wings spanning out majestically when it flies. Before it can become a full grown moth, it has to be a pupa in a cocoon. Now, the very interesting fact about the Emperor Moth's cocoon is that the neck of the cocoon is especially narrow.

In order that it can become a moth, the pupa of this Emperor Moth must first squeeze its way out of the narrow neck. One day while watching a "poor" pupa trying to struggle its way out of the cocoon, a 'kind' scientist decided to help by using a scalpel to cut and widen the neck so that it would be easier for the pupa to come out. sure enough the pupa came out without much struggle, but the poor moth was not able to fly when it came out. It could only crawl on the ground. After a few days it died crawling on the ground instead of spending its life flying in the sky with its majestic wings!

It was later found out that in order for it to be able to fly it has to undergo the process where it struggles and squeezes its way out of the narrow eck because it is through this "squeezing" process that the fluid is being pumped into the veins of the wings making it strong enough to be able to fly when it comes out.

Well, the struggles of life, the heartaches, the pains are all a necessity if you want to be great. So, instead of cursing and swearing, understand and cherish them while you are experiencing them as they part of the making of a man....

from Dare to Fail: Billi Lim

Kecil-kecil cili api

Hari ke-4 di Big Mama Kindergarten.. Cabaran yang menguji kesabaran walau sekadar hanya meguruskan kehidupan para bidadari dan bidadara kecil yang comel.. Keleteh mereka cukup menghiburkan walau kadang2 tak tahu tindakan sepatutnya kepada kanak berumur 3 tahun, serta 2 warga OKU... kadang ketawa, bertengkar.. ingin dimanja, dipeluk dan inginkan perhatian yang lebih.

Cukup terasa perasaan penat dan lelah seorang ibu yang mengasuh anak-anaknya, tetapi perlu kerana kasih dan sayang.. Ujian lebih berat bila mempunyai anak yang kurang upaya..

balik rumah je, mesti terbayang-bayang wajah dan suara mereka... rindunye... agaknye, macam tu lah kan mak ngan ayah kita bila kita berjauhan dari mereka..? Harap, ini pengalaman terindah.. =)

iBarat pepatah yang selalu tu... tangan yang menghayun buaian, mampu menggoncang dunia.. Moga sumenye membesar dan menjadi org yg berguna...

Love you all: aishah, aqilah, intan, dania, balqis, afiq, rafiq, aiman, adam, safwan, mikail, haikal, adib, alif, hamzal, adrrayan, shamin, bella, hamzal, shahila, mimi.. dan tak ingat nama yg lain lg... huuhu..

Tahun Baru

Rasanya, masih belum terlambat untuk mengucapkan Selamat Tahun Baru... Walaupun telah masuk akhir bulan Muharam 1431H, dan di pertengahan bulan Januari..

Hurmm... Ini adalah entry pertama bg thn 1431H dan tahun 2009, azam baru masih lg segar bg yang mula membuat azam baru awal tahun, dan perbaikan azam tahun2 lalu agar tahun ini lebih bermakna dan lebih baik..

Bagi yang bakal menduduki peperiksaan besar (UPSR, PMR, SPM, STPM), semoga berjaya! Persediaan awal sepatutnya sudah bermula.. adikku Hazim.. berusahalah! Kejayaan tidak datang bergolek..Tawakal shj tidak mencukupi.... Buat adik2ku yg berada di USM, jgn mudah berputus asa.. Yakinlah keperitan sebentar itu akan membuahkan kemanisan...

Tidak lupa juga kpd sahabat2ku yg sudah lama jauh di mata.. yang baru melangkah ke alam rumah tangga juga yg bakal mendirikannya, srta yg telah menerima kehadiran orang baru dalam kehidupan... Kalian adalah org yg telah dipilih oleh Allah.. memikul tanggungjawab yg besar..

Dan tahun baru ini, samada Tahun Hijrah atau Masihi, moga kedua2nya dapat diseimbangkan.. digenggam bersama menghadapi peperiksaan yg lebih besar kelak..

Aku? hidup mesti diteruskan... Insya-Allah, ada yg terbaik menanti di hadapan... Dia Maha Mengetahui... so, Usaha Doa Tawakal...... =)

USAH PUTUS ASA- Akbar feat Mirwana

Tak tahu di sebalik suka dan duka
Ada hikmah yang disediakan olehNya
Jangan berputus asa
Bila ia menimpa
Redho dan pasrah
Itulah lumrah

Mahukah kita semua terus terjatuh
Hingga tiada tempat untuk kita berlabuh
Bukanlah masa untuk kita mengeluh
Bukanlah waktu untuk asyik mengadu

Dari itu jangan berpaling haluan
Ke arah matlamat yang telah kita sasarkan
Masih banyak yang belum kita terokai
Di depan pasti bahagia menanti

**Cubalah kau terus mencuba
Lupakan segala duka lara
Usah putus asa
Segala dugaan menimpa
Pastikan nanti ada hikmahnya
Usah putus asa

Putus asa bukanlah penyudahnya
Ayuh teruskan langkah serta berwaspada
Mungkin hari ini kita meniti duka
Esok harap menjadi milik kita semula

Tulisan ini hanya luahan hati
Bukan aku menagih belas simpati
Biar apa pun di depan menanti
Sabar menerima ketentuan Ilahi

Kesilapan silam jadikan landasan
Hidup bukan seindah diimpikan
Teruslah melangkah dan jangan menoleh lagi
Segala yang diimpi akan menjadi pasti

Ulang **

Kita rentas bersama samudera
Layarkan bahtera harapan cita

Ulang**

Peganglah janji dari Ilahi
Jika kau sedar ia kan pasti
Terus mendaki puncak yang tinggi
Gapailah mimpi lukisan hati

Cubalah engkau terus mencuba
Jika kau tiba di puncak jaya
Ingatlah kita semua di dunia
Bukan milik kita milik Yang Esa
Ya, Milik YANG ESA.

Doa pelindung diri khusus buat kaum Hawa

Semakin lama diakui keselamatan kaum wanita semakin membimbangkan. Hampir setiap hari di akhbar ada saja berita seperti rogol, cabul, ragut dan lain2. Baru2 ini berhampiran tempat kerja saya baru sahaja digemparkan dengan berita pencullikan seorang wanita yang dalam perjalanan pulang. Nasib beliau baik kerana dapat dijejaki dan keberanian beliau sendiri.. Semua ini datangnya daripada kuasa dan perlindungan Allah.

Kebetulan ketika melayari internet, terlintas mengenai artikel doa elak dirogol dan cabul. Makanya, saya ingin berkongsi artikel ini, moga ianya dapat dimanfaatkan bersama-sama. =)

Terdapat beberapa pertanyaan tentang doa yang khusus bagi kaum wanita samada dewasa dan kanak-kanak untuk mengelakkan mereka dari terperangkap dalam situasi yang boleh membawa kepada rogol, pencabulan dan lebih dahsyat lagi deraan seks yang diakhiri dengan pembunuhan.

Maka di sini, selain doa dari hadis sohih pelindung setiap kali keluar rumah yang telah dipaparkan di artikel berkenaan Al-Marhumah Nurin Jazlin dalam website zaharudin.net sebelum ini. Iaitu :-

رَسُولَ اللَّهِ يقول من قال بِسْمِ اللَّهِ الذي لَا يَضُرُّ مع اسْمِهِ شَيْءٌ في الأرض ولا في السَّمَاءِ وهو السَّمِيعُ الْعَلِيمُ ثَلَاثَ مَرَّاتٍ لم تُصِبْهُ فَجْأَةُ بَلَاءٍ حتى يُصْبِحَ وَمَنْ قَالَهَا حين يُصْبِحُ ثَلَاثُ مَرَّاتٍ لم تُصِبْهُ فَجْأَةُ بَلَاءٍ حتى يُمْسِيَ

DALAM sebutan rumi : BISMILLAH ALLAZI LA YADURRU MA'ASMIHI SYAIUN FIL ARDI WA LA FIS SAMAIE , WAHUWAS SAMI'UL 'ALIM

Ertinya : Rasulullah s.a.w didengari berkata sesiapa yang berdoa : "Dengan nama Allah yang tiada dimudaratkan sesuatu apapun dengan namaNya samada di bumi dan di langit, dan Dialah maha mendengar dan maha mengetahui" sebanyak 3 kali, maka ia tidak ditimpa kesusahan bala dan musibah sehinggalah subuh esoknya, dan barangsiapa membacanya ketika subuh 3 kali, ia tidak ditimpa kesusahan bala dan musibah sehingga petangnya" ( Riwayat Abu Daud, 4/323 ; At-Tirmidizi, 5/465 dan Ahmad ; Tirmizi : Hasan - Teks doa berwarna Merah Syeikh Syuaib ; Hasan)

Ingin saya utarakan satu lagi doa sohih yang dibaca oleh isteri Nabi Ibrahim a.s (iaitu Siti Sarah) yang menyebabkan para lelaki zalim termasuk rajanya melarikan diri, saya sertakan sekali sumber rujukannya dari hadis Nabi s.a.w.

اللّهُمَّ اِنْ كُنْتَ تَعْلَمُ اني آمَنْتُ بِكَ وَبِرَسُولِكَ وَأَحْصَنْتُ فرجي إِلاَّ على زوجي فَلاَ تُسَلِّطْ عَلَىَّ الْكَافِرَ

DALAM SEBUTAN RUMI : ALLAHUMMA IN KUNTA TA'LAMU INNI AAMANTU BIKA, WA BIRASULIKA WA AHSONTU FARJI ILLA 'ALA ZAWJI FALA TUSALLIT 'ALAYYA AL-KAFIR WA AZ-ZALIM

Ertinya : Ya Allah, jika engkau mengetahui bahawa aku beriman kepada Mu dan Rasul Mu, dan aku menjaga kehormatanku hanya untuk suamiku, maka lindungilah aku daripada dikuasai oleh orang-orang kafir dan zalim" ( Riwayat Al-Bukhari, no 2104, 2/722 ; Sunan Al-Baihaqi, 5/97; Musnad ahmad, 2/403 ; Fath Al-Bari, 6/393; Umdat Al-Qari, 12/30 ; Sohih )

Semoga ia dapat dihafaz dan di amalkan oleh semua wanita Muslimah, Cuma jangan lupa bahawa doa ini bersoifat tawassul dengan amal soleh anda, iaitu apabila diikat dengan imannya dengan Allah s.w.t dan RasulNya dan telah dijaga kehormatannya dan sudah tentu auratnya.

Justeru, seolah-olah kemaqbulan doa ini juga diikat tentang kewajiban untuk beriman dengan Allah dan rasulNya dan menutup aurat anda. Tanpanya, doa ini masih amat digalakkan untuk dilakukan, cuma jaminan seolah-olah lebih pasti bagi yang apa yang dikatanya (dalam doa ini) menepati apa yang sebenarnya penampilan fizikal anda.

Justeru, jika berbaju kebaya terbelah, baju sendat menampakkan susuk tubuh, berpakaian nipis seolah telanjang, bersolek canggih seperti artis bukan Islam..sudah tentu doa ini sahaja belum cukup mampu menjaga anda. Bukan kerana Allah s.w.t tidak mampu, tetapi Allah s.w.t tidak anggap wanita itu layak dek kerana kedegilannya sendiri.

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